Loving a Scorpio means understanding what they don’t say because so much of a Scorpio is shown through actions and not words. It’s being able to read them when they are uncomfortable but they won’t say that. It’s being able to watch their face change when something upsets them. It’s understanding they don’t want to talk about things sometimes because they need to process what has happened first themselves and sometimes they need to do it alone.
Loving a Scorpio means not taking things too personally. It’s letting them walk away when they need to be alone and know they’ll come around. It’s respecting their wishes when they say they need space. It’s understanding they act as both an introvert and an extrovert sometimes. That they might need to be alone after a party to recharge.
You’ll admire them for being the life of the party but what everyone sees and what you know them to be are two sides of the same coin.
Loving a Scorpio means being able to stand confidently on your own sometimes because they don’t respond well to clingy. They don’t respond well to being on a short leash or feeling like they are in a cage. They need their freedom to thrive.
It’s trusting them and how they feel even if they struggle with expressing how much you mean to them. It’s understanding they will never be the affectionate and lovey-dovey person but not asking them to be.
Instead, they’ll make fun of you hiding behind sarcasm and trying to make people laugh. But on the other end of that is someone who is going to need those serious talks about life at 2AM when they are confused sometimes.
Loving a Scorpio means being able to be honest with them because they will always be honest with you even when it hurts. It’s knowing they will be loyal and they expect the same. It’s understanding if someone is their enemy, the person probably did something very unforgiving because Scorpios don’t blow things out of proportion for fun. It’s trusting them even if they don’t tell you the whole story.
Loving a Scorpio means appreciating their good judgment and steering away from those who give them bad feelings, even if they can’t justify why most of the time a Scorpio is right about people.
Loving a Scorpio means being patient with them. Because they are both guarded and jaded. They have a really good heart, it just takes some time for them to show it to you. It takes them time to realize they are even worthy and deserving of their love.
Loving a Scorpio means being able to live with the pressure they put on themselves that might spill over into your relationship. They are very hard on themselves and unforgiving when they mess up. They strive to be the best at everything and beat themselves up when they fall short. You might feel like they expect the same efforts of perfection but they don’t. They just appreciate you there when things go wrong.
It’s sitting with them in silence and being okay with it. Because silence doesn’t make them uncomfortable and sometimes they just appreciate the company.
Loving a Scorpio means appreciating the fact they really are sensitive even if they don’t show it on the outside and knowing very well out of any sign and any person, they love the hardest once you prove you’ve earned it.
When you love a Scorpio it’s going to be the love that changes your life and your expectations for everyone else.]]>
1. You ruin your life when you judge yourself too harshly.
As a Scorpio, you are your own toughest critic. This leads you to much success but even greater self-inflicted pressure. The want and need to succeed becomes your single-minded focus. Sometimes you focus too much on the destination and don’t spend as much time on the journey.
2. You ruin your life by burning bridges and not forgiving other.
You are one of the most loyal signs. With that loyalty, you hold others to that same standard and you don’t expect them to mess up or hurt you. Sometimes they do. No one is perfect even you who strives for perfection. But you hold grudges, burn bridges and don’t forgive people for what they’ve done even when they say sorry. It’s good to be cautious. But sometimes you’re overcautious.
3. You ruin your life when you fear love and push people away.
You love harder than any sign which means you are bound to get hurt even more. And you have. Pain changes people and you’ve built a wall around your heart completely overcome with fear of letting anyone too close. But the pain you fear repeating yourself and pushing people away if you let them in you’ll realize some people’s love has the ability to heal.
4. You ruin your life by reliving the past.
Scorpios tend to dwell on the past and fear the future. Failing to live in the moment and be happy. When you live in the past you build it up to be something it wasn’t. You replay memories painting them better than they were and not seeing it for what it was. That will always leave you feeling a bit empty and guilty. Learn to let go and not feel bad about it.
5. You ruin your life by not trusting your instincts.
Scorpios are the most intuitive of all signs and should trust themselves more. But like everyone they have doubts. The problem arises when they turn to too many people and lose sight of what they even want.
You will never fail to listen to that voice inside you that you try and silence sometimes.
6. You ruin your life when you hide your emotions.
Because you are so emotional, you’re afraid of it sometimes. You are afraid to show that side to anyone. You fear vulnerability. You fear someone getting to know you to the core of who you are and rejecting you. And instead of showing you care you come across as difficult with sharp edges when in reality your bark is completely opposite of your bite.
7. You ruin your life by allowing yourself to burn out.
You hate saying no to people. You hate letting anyone down. You stay busy and never catch a break. But sometimes you need to and most the time you deserve it. Before you spread yourself too thin remember it’s okay to say no.
8. You ruin your life by being too competitive.
When it comes to others you want to be the best. And it isn’t an ego thing. It’s a you thing always striving to achieve your best. A lot of people look at it as arrogant. But you didn’t just wake up being the best you worked at it. But it’s okay when you lose sometimes. It’s okay when someone is better than you. Striving for perfection is admirable but don’t kill yourself with unrealistic expectations.
9. You ruin your life by not having faith in other people.
You think you are the only one you can trust. The only one who can do something right. But if you put faith in others they will surprise you. You like having control and taking ownership of your life. But it’s okay to let go of reins a bit.
10. You ruin your life by being so blunt.
You have the best intentions you just don’t know how, to be honest without it hurting people. The truth hurts and Scorpios don’t hold back or care if it’s offensive. Anyone who wants an honest opinion of a situation and good advice where someone won’t blow smoke up your ass, turn to you. But sometimes it’s okay to not always say what you’re thinking and just let people make the mistakes they are going to make.
11. You ruin your life by not loving yourself better
You do really well for yourself and you work so hard. But you never give yourself credit where credit is due. You are always focusing on the next hurdle instead of celebrating in the past success. You strive for perfection because you focus too much on your flaws and the mistakes you’ve made. But if you saw yourself the way everyone else did, you’d realize how wonderful you are. You deserve to see yourself in that light.