This Is What It Means To Love A Pisces

Loving a Pisces means understanding they feel things a little deeper than most people. It’s understanding they are a little more sensitive and take things personally. It’s being sure to be careful with your word choice and dialect because they read between the lines when it comes to everything.

Loving a Pisces means being the less emotional one, being able to be logical in times when they just want to follow their heart and not their head.

It’s respecting them for the way they are and not shaming them for it. Because to show vulnerability really is their strength.

Loving a Pisces means accepting all they have to give because it will always be their best and it might seem like a lot or they are trying too hard. They do try very hard to win you over and they never stop trying. It requires you to not take advantage of them or expect things but appreciate it and show gratitude.

Loving a Pisces means being able to sit down and talk things out because the chances are if they are upset they have probably been thinking about it all day and night.

Loving a Pisces means looking out for them when it comes to relationships because they see the best in everyone but that doesn’t always mean it’s the truth. It’s standing by them when they give someone a second chance when they don’t deserve it and staying silent because Pisces are stubborn and will always follow their heart but when things go wrong it’s important you don’t say I told you so because they hate being wrong about people. It physically hurts them when they are.

It’s being able to stand up for them and fight their battles because they aren’t confrontational. It’s being the strong one. Being the confident one. It’s being okay with being the dominant one in a relationship because Pisces are passive. Loving a Pisces means understanding they don’t do well meeting a lot of people overcome with shyness and being timid. It’s taking their hand and not leaving their side if they are nervous at a party.

Loving a Pisces means sitting up with them at 2AM because they have a lot on their mind and they just need someone to listen. It’s forgiving them quickly for their mistakes because they don’t forgive themselves that easily even if they do to others.

It’s being able to read subtle expressions and signs. Because they will never straight up say something is wrong or they are hurt. But you’ll think twice about the songs they listen to, the things they post, their ability to express themselves through everything but words.

But of all signs, they are the most genuine and honest. Because people tend to be more unkind to Pisces than most they make an effort to never treat someone the same way.

Loving a Pisces means valuing everything that is so raw about them and realizing you are the lucky one.

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This Is How You Date A Pisces

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You start out slow. You ask her out to coffee because you know, deep down, that she might not say yes to anything more. You pick her up on time — even though she’s running a little late and tells you she’ll be out in a few minutes — and drive her to your favorite coffee shop. Yours because she’ll probably make you choose. Pisces girls aren’t always known for their decisiveness, even when it comes to the littlest things. If you’re happy, so is she.

You start out with small talk and are surprised how quickly the subject changes. Pisces aren’t the kind of people who like talking about the weather. She’s so open about everything that it might take you aback. She asks you about your job, your friends, your family, your hobbies. She meets the punchline of your jokes with her own witty retorts you can’t help but smile at. Before you know it, hours have passed and she tells you it’s time for her to leave. You wish she didn’t have to.

She doesn’t text you first, even if she can’t stop thinking about you. She waits for you to make the first move. It’s not because she likes playing mind games but because she’s been hurt before and she wants to be sure — this is the kind of girl who falls in and out of infatuation at the drop of a pin. She needs to know that this time, she’s not in it alone before she gets too deep. And so she waits for your “hey” before she gives you her own, and before long you’re exchanging inside jokes and witty banter. Somewhere, she’s on the other side of the line smiling to herself.

And so you’ ask her out again, but this time for dinner, something new she hasn’t tried before at a cute little venue you already know she’ll love because she adores finding hidden gems. This time you skip over all that small talk completely, because it seems silly to backtrack after you already opened up on the first date. Besides, she always seems interested in what you have to say. You like to listen to her crazy ideas, too — she’s imaginative in ways you’re not used to people being. You’ll find yourself laughing nonstop half the evening and talking intently for the rest. You’re not sure why, but she manages to get you to say things you’ve never admitted to people before. It’s kind of scary, but you think you like it.

And so you take her home at the end of the night and maybe you kiss her at her doorstep or maybe you don’t, because she may be a romantic but she likes to take things slow. If you do kiss her, you’ll notice something careful about the way she moves against you, like she’s afraid one wrong move might shatter everything. A Pisces girl knows what it’s like to watch everything break right in front of her very eyes.

She waits for you to text her first again, and you do, because there’s something about this girl that always makes your mind wander back to her. You stay up all night messaging and she sends you pictures that remind her of you while you’re at work; she loves the ones that you send her during your lunch break, too.

And then it’s your next date, and this time when you meet up it’ll feel like you’ve met her more than twice. In fact, it almost feels like you’ve known her forever. And you already know she likes you by the way that she looks at you, like you’re the only person in the room, and by the way she laughs at your jokes, as if her whole body is lighting up. And if you get past this date and she says she’ll see you again, you’ll know you’ve finally got her. You just will.

The next time you talk to her, she texts you first. And that’s how you date a Pisces.

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