Women Who Prefer Dating Younger Men Vs. The Ones Who Love Older Men, By Zodiac Sign

Do you.

Are you a cougar, trophy wife, or some where in between? Some women love the idea of dating an older man, and others dream of a man that can keep their hearts young and alive in a relationship. That’s why you’ll sometimes see a woman with a guy who is old enough to be her father, and a woman who is a cougar and proud of it.

When you think of your ideal partner, you probably have a list of a few traits that you’d like him to have that define you as one or the other, and yes, there are some women who prefer a man who is close to her age, but there’s something intriguing about sharing your life with someone who is a bit further on either side of the spectrum.
For example, a sense of humor, intelligence, the ability to make you blush and give you butterflies, even after dating each other for a long time.

 

You might even prefer someone who’s taller than you, has an athletic build or even dyes his hair cool colors. But what about age? Even subconsciously, you might be attracted to men who are younger or older than you, rather than guys who are the same age as you.

This preference might not necessarily be something you actively look for in a new partner, but if you look at your past boyfriends, you might notice a trend. Each zodiac sign has their own preferences and needs when it comes to finding the ideal guy for them.
And even if you don’t say you’re more drawn to younger or older guys (although some horoscopes are more vocal about it), the things you look for in a partner tend to speak to your age preference, as well.

For example, if you’re a horoscope who tends to be more independent and mature for your age, you’re probably more attracted to older men because they have more experience and can appreciate your need for intelligent conversation and a more mature relationship. Or you might be a zodiac sign that is always looking for the next exciting activity and you want a partner who will break the rules with you.

Since younger guys are more often associated with carefree rebellion and don’t care as much about settling down as older men, you might be drawn toward guys who are younger than you.  Whether we know it or not, we’re really just looking for a partner who will bring out the very best in us.
So, age preference might not be at the top of your list of priorities for your man, but it definitely helps to date the guy who’s the right age for you – no one wants to have to feel like they’re babysitting a younger man or can’t keep up with an older one!

And if you sometimes feel like you just can’t connect with any guy you meet, maybe you do need to start only dating a certain age and see if that helps.

But first, you need to know which man is right for you. Here are the cougars of astrology who prefer dating younger men vs. the ones who love older men, according to astrology, ranked from most likely to be a cougar, to those who prefer dating men their own age vs. an older man.

1. CANCER (June 21 – July 22)

Cougar.
Cancer, you’re all about those relationships that are built on a nurturing foundation. You are most drawn to younger men because it means you have a chance to take care of them. In fact, you sometimes even date so young that you’re considered a cougar. You’re the kind of partner that will cook for your man, give him endless affection, and completely devote yourself to your relationship, thanks to your nurturing personality.
To you, a relationship should be something you devote yourself to 100 percent. The reason you like dating younger guys so much is because you find it much easier to devote yourself to someone who is still growing and learning in love, just like you are. You know that someone who still makes mistakes won’t fault you for your own mistakes, whereas older men might expect you to be someone you’re not just for them.

 

2. TAURUS (April 20 – May 20)

Cougar.
Taurus, you are a naturally protective and loving partner, so dating younger guys is just something that comes naturally to you. You like the thought of being able to protect someone you love and hold him close so that your love can blossom and thrive in the caring environment you’ve built. When you date, you hope that your partner looks up to you with admiration and love in his eyes always.
You also like the thought of being able to teach your partner new things. If you date someone your own age or even older than you, there’s really nothing you can teach them that they probably don’t already know. Dating a younger man gives you an opportunity to be a teacher in love, life, and romance. You might not admit it to yourself, but you like to think that you’re knowledgeable about a lot of things – and you want someone who will appreciate that about you.

3. ARIES (March 21 – April 19)

Cougar.
Aries, you’re not an immature zodiac sign in the slightest, but you are a bit impulsive. When you date, you have a tendency of falling head over heels in love before even really getting to know the person yet. When you date men who are older than you, it makes you feel like you need to take your excitement for life and love down a few notches, which bums you out big time.
Dating younger men is more your speed because they are more likely to want to join you in doing exciting, yet sometimes impulsive and dangerous, things. Having a partner you can count on for fun and one that excites you is much more appealing than being in a relationship with someone older who is looking for something more serious. You want a young love that will make your heart beat fast and make you see the world through rose-colored glasses.

4. SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21)

Cougar.
Scorpio, you want something intense and fiery when it comes to dating and relationships. You don’t really mind dating people your own age, but you definitely prefer dating younger guys who are always ready to go at it with you and don’t find PDA immature or gross. You need someone who is just as passionate and into the relationship as you are.
Whenever you think about what it would be like to date someone older than you, you can’t get past the idea that it’s probably pretty boring long enough to even try it. With someone younger, you can be wild and crazy with one guy or a lot of guys at once without having to worry about settling down. A lot of young guys prefer to keep things casual and don’t want to talk about getting serious right away, so you feel safer emotionally and much more comfortable around them.

5. GEMINI (May 21 – June 20)

Same age.
Gemini, you’re most attracted to men your own age. When it comes to dating, you want things to be as easy as possible, which means you don’t want to have to work extra hard just to get on your guy’s level. If the relationship isn’t immediately fun and easy, you’re not interested. You’re looking for your twin flame – someone who has the same views on dating as you, is patient when you’re hot and cold, and brings a flirty dynamic to the relationship.
You enjoy dating guys who are part of the same generation as you because you feel like you have much more in common with them. You will most likely meet these kinds of guys online while browsing Tinder or checking out what’s new on Instagram because you’re all about making that connection, and it’ll be easy for you to kindle a new relationship from there. Plus, you’d rather date someone who understands your generation and its dating preferences than date someone older or younger than you where there’s already a disconnect.

6. LIBRA (September 23 – October 22)

Same age.

In order for you to really feel like you have a connection with someone you’re dating, Libra, you need to be able to relate to them. If you can’t see yourself in your partner, then the relationship is probably not going to last. For that reason, you can’t date younger OR older men; it’s either someone your age or no one at all.
If you date someone younger than you, you’ll always feel like you’re moving too fast for him. If you date someone older, you’ll feel like you’re being rushed into committing. You need to find that perfect balance in everything in your life, including your love life. Dating guys your own age means you’re giving yourself the best chance to find a love you’re happy with – and you’ve never been one to give up an opportunity like that.

7. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 – December 21)

Same age.
Sagittarius, you look for a best friend in your partner – there’s something very comforting to you about having a partner that can be a best friend, a lover, and someone you can commit to. So, when it comes to the perfect age, you tend to date guys who are the same age as you. If you think of your partner as your BFF, you’re going to want a BFF that’s close in age to you, right? I mean, how else are you supposed to bond over things?

Love is a learning curve for you. You don’t have time to either teach someone else or learn from someone about love. You get bored by dating easily, so you need someone who can hold your attention and actually make you excited about being in a relationship. When you feel comfortable being yourself around your partner, you know you’ve found the right one. Younger and older guys just bore you and make you feel very un-Sagittarius-like.

8. LEO (July 23 – August 22)

Loves an older man.
Love needs to be fiery and passionate for you, Leo. It also needs to be full of gifts and worship in the bedroom. And no one pampers a gorgeous thang like you quite like an older man does. Your only caveat is that he can only be a little older than you – nothing more than five or six years your senior. You want a partner who will knock your socks off in bed, but still have that protective, stable nature about him.

You also like the fact that dating an older guy will attract attention, whether that’s from friends asking where you found this man or from other attractive, older men you’d also be interested in dating. As a sophisticated, mature zodiac sign, you like dating above your own age because it means you get to stimulate your mind and be with someone who respects and appreciates your refined nature.

9. PISCES (February 19 – March 20)

Loves how an older man is her caretaker.
Pisces, nothing is more romantic to you than knowing you have someone who loves you and will protect you from everything bad that happens in life. Just knowing that you can come home to someone big and strong, yet gentle and kind, at night is like a dream to you. That’s why you’ve always been drawn to older guys – there’s just someone inherently secure about them that gets you writing your own love story in your head.
You also don’t want to admit this, but you can be a little immature at times. Whether it’s when you’re dealing with life or you’re thinking about your relationship, you can be a little hard to handle when you don’t get your way. Having a partner who’s older than you is like having a knight in shining armor swoop in when you need him most. In other words, your ideal relationship.

10. VIRGO (August 23 – September 22)

Loves to date older men.
Virgo, you’re the kind of person who doesn’t really have time to deal with someone who isn’t all in when it comes to dating you. When you look for the perfect partner, he needs to be able to check off everything on your wish list, no excuses. You would much rather stay single than date frogs until you find your Prince Charming. This is why you’re more attracted to older guys – you don’t have the patience to deal with youngbloods.
You also know that the older the guy is, the more mature and confident he is in making a commitment. You already know what you want in a relationship – you always have. So, dating someone who also knows what he wants and isn’t afraid to take things to the next level is refreshing to you. You’ll even date a decade or so out of your age range – hey, as long as you get what you’re looking for, bring it on!

11. AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18)

Loves to date an older man.
Dating is kind of a pain in the butt to you, Aquarius. You don’t really like being in a relationship anyway because you’re worried you’ll have to split the second your man gets clingy, but that doesn’t mean you don’t try to make it work. When you are in a relationship, you date, and almost exclusively prefer, older men over younger guys or guys your age.
You like the fact that older men have already had their fill of immature, naïve partners and you like to think of yourself as someone capable of having a serious relationship like an adult better than a lot of people your age. You’re also very independent, so you need someone who will respect your need for freedom and alone time. Older guys are definitely better partners for this dynamic, rather than younger guys who need constant reassurance that you’re not ghosting them… sigh.

12. CAPRICORN (December 22 – January 19)

Loves dating older men.
Capricorn, I don’t think you’ve ever dated younger men before, have you? You are also one of the more mature zodiac signs and you need a partner that’s exactly the same. Relationships are able growing with someone and investing in something important. You will not tolerate dating someone younger than you because, more often than not, it just turns into a headache for you.
You’d even date someone so much older than you that you could be considered a trophy wife. You don’t care! You’d be a good trophy wife anyway. You just want a strong, lasting relationship with someone who sees the value of commitment just as much as you do. If you know you can count on your partner to stick it out with you through thick or thin, people can call you whatever they want. You still get the man and the perfect relationship, so you win (no matter how much older he is than you).

The Most Memorable Thing About You Based On Your Zodiac Sign

So apt!

Aries (March 21 April 19)

Your attraction to adventure is what people always remember most about you. They love that you are never afraid of taking risks or chances to pursue new experiences. A lot of people find you fascinating because of your vast perspective and exposure to numerous cultures. You are always the first person that people think of when they need an adventure buddy to go on a trip with. 

Taurus (April 20 May 21)

People can always remember you for your reliability and your loyalty. You have this uncanny ability to always be there for your friends whenever they need you. People know that they can always turn to you for help whenever they find themselves in compromising situations. You are known to be quite selfless and generous with your actions and gestures and that’s why people are naturally drawn to having you as an ally.

Gemini (May 22 June 21)

As a Gemini, you are best known for your natural curiosity. You are a very polarizing person in the sense that a lot of people will either love or hate the fact that you always give in to your curiosity. Others will see you as someone who is always prying into affairs that don’t concern you, while others will be fond of how you always express an interest in other people. 

Cancer (June 22 July 22)

Naturally, people will see Cancer as one of the most emotional Zodiac signs out there. They know that you have a tendency to get hurt fairly easily and so people will always be policing themselves with respect to the words that they use when they talk to you. They are always walking on eggshells around you because they don’t want to end up saying anything that might hurt your feelings.


Leo (July 23 August 22)

You love for love is ultimately what people remember most about you. Sure, you can be ruthless and downright reckless with your ways a lot of the time, but people always know that whatever you choose to do comes from a good place. They know that you have a good heart which sometimes compromises your logic and rationality but they can respect that about you. 

Virgo (August 23 September 22)

When it comes to hard work and sheer determination, people are always reminded of you. You are known to always pursue the things that you want in life with relentless vigor. They know that you are the type of person who doesn’t back down from a challenge and who isn’t fazed by adversities. You are also known to be very loyal and honest as a person. 

Libra (September 23 October 22)

If it boils down to a discussion on kindness, then a Libra is bound to pop up in the conversation somewhere. You have a reputation for being one of the kindest out of all the Zodiac signs and you should be proud of that. People always expect you to carry yourself with absolute grace and tact. You are always known to be on your best behavior regardless of the situation. 

Scorpio (October 23 November 22)

Strength and resilience. That is what you are known for as a Scorpio. People always think of you when they need that extra motivation to stay strong. You are known to never compromise your principles even when things get difficult. You always stand your ground and you always fight for what you believe in and that’s why a lot of people attach themselves to you. 


Sagittarius (November 23 December 21)

Your willingness to act on and pursue your own freedom is what people are always fond of remembering about you. A lot of people tend to get chained to their own circumstances, but you serve as a beacon of hope for these people. You are living proof that happiness lies in living a free life. 

Capricorn (December 22 January 20)

Your leadership qualities are what people really remember about you. You are a natural-born leader who is always very good at managing multiple personalities. You have a great way of organizing conflict into something that is productive and constructive. You are good at tapping into peoples’ potentials and maximizing them to their fullest. 

Aquarius (January 21 February 18)

If there is one word to represent how people see you as a person, it’s this: honesty. You are always known to be a defender of the truth and people can always rely on you for that. You are known to never mince your words or hide behind lies. That’s why whenever people want some real talk, they can always turn to you.

Pisces (February 19 March 20)

You have an inherently creative mind and that’s what people are reminded of whenever they think of a Pisces. They always turn to you for artistic inspiration or whenever they need advice for thinking outside of the box. You are always good at offering creative solutions to difficult problems and so people really see you as a big asset to have. 

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The 8 Zodiac Signs That Will Be Most Affected By This Neptune Retrograde

All of the signs will be affected in one form or another but these eight will be affected much more. They might be affected in a positive way or perhaps a negative way, but I guess only time will truly tell.

Below we are going to go over each of these 8 signs and hopefully provide some more insight into the world of the zodiac. As you may know, Neptune is currently in retrograde and for most of us, this means change and spiritual searching is well underway. Is your sign one of the most affected?

Taurus

While you might not enjoy it, your friends and family are going to be shifting in the times to come. You are going to be learning a lot more about those close to you and where they have let you down in your life. During this retrograde, you are going to be cutting out toxic people and making room for new connections. While it will be hard, you can handle it just fine.

Gemini

While there are lots of new things to come into your life, you cannot see them just yet. This retrograde is going to be pushing you to make some major changes in your life. While you aren’t going to be feeling the greatest during this time the things going on within you are going to shape you into who you are going to be. Just because you look happy doesn’t mean you are. Do some soul searching if you need to.

Cancer

During this retrograde, you need to stop focusing on other people and spend some time worrying about yourself. Stop letting your need to please others hold you back. You can do so much more if you really put your mind to it. Do not let anyone tell you who you are or where you need to be if you don’t want to do something don’t do it.

Leo

During this time you need to stop being so selfish and really look towards the people who are worried about you are being left behind. Just because they don’t always agree with you doesn’t mean they don’t have your best interest at heart. You need to find a good common ground or form of balance and this retrograde is going to really help you do that.

Virgo

Relationship wise, things are going to begin opening up quickly during this retrograde. If you are seeing someone you might decide they aren’t for you anymore but if you’re single you might be having someone come into your life very soon. Don’t close yourself off or leave things up to chance, if the opportunity presents itself for you to meet new people get out and do it.

Scorpio

You are much more creative than you give yourself credit for. This retrograde is going to bring that out in you even more. During this time you need to really put your mind to work and see what things you can come up with. You can do so much more than you are right now if you rely on your friends and family to help. Don’t let yourself think that things have to be done alone, sometimes help is needed.

Sagittarius

You are going to be reconsidering a lot of things within your life during the time of this retrograde but not in a bad way. You are going to be settling down and finding what works best for you. Where you are headed now might not be where you need to end up. Give yourself time if you feel you need it.

Pisces

This retrograde is going to be a bit harder on you than it is other people. It is going to push you through some rough times in order for you to begin healing. While this will be a good thing overall it will be painful to go through.

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Why You’re TERRIBLE At Love, According To Your Zodiac Sign

Admit it, you suck at love!

Are you an expert at love or should you get a lot better at it? As much as we may long for it, crave it, and devote our lives to finding it, no one is perfect at love. In fact, much of the time, we are bad at love.

Think of what it’s like when you’re at the beginning of a love relationship — how many missteps and mistakes do you make? You try so hard to be cool, open and sophisticated, acting as if you know what you’re doing every step of the way, but you still will do something inappropriate, embarrassing, and awkward. If you’re lucky, all the stupid things you do will be seen as charming and will endear you to the person you’re falling in love with.


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Then, when you’re starting to get to know someone and you open up emotionally, there continues to be the danger of you screwing things up in a big way. But you continue — you have to know that your heart is involved.

Are you any better at love when you’re at the end of it? Not necessary; we continue to grow and make mistakes, but hopefully, the love has grown stronger and can hold up to our failures and errors.

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The truth is we are all bad at love almost all the time, but that’s ultimately how we keep things fresh and interesting in our relationships. If we were perfect at love, we’d be boring and predictable. If we didn’t make mistakes, we wouldn’t grow and we’d just be stagnant and unchanging.


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We change the way we express and deal with our emotions as we age. You don’t feel love the same way at 40 that you did at 16. Love changes and we change and no matter how proficient you get at it, you’re still going to mess up.

This is why you’re terrible at love, according to your zodiac sign.

ARIES (March 21 – April 19)

When you meet someone you think might be the one, you’re enthusiastically all in, but once the relationship threatens to take time away from your activities, you start to feel weighed down. When you start to feel comfortable with your partner, you have no filter and don’t hold back when you get angry.

You get over your outbursts pretty quickly but that doesn’t mean your partner does. It’s challenging enough to keep up with your moods, let alone keeping up with your constant stream of adventures and activities.

 

Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries, As Written By One

TAURUS (April 20 – May 20)

You’re not the most communicative person on the planet and it can get old fast when you refuse to open up to your partner. Then there’s the fact that you’re incredibly stubborn. Compromise isn’t your thing. When you dig your heels in, your partner may feel like they’re senselessly banging their head against a wall. Relationships involve two people.

 

Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus, As Written By One

GEMINI (May 21 – June 20)

CANCER (June 21 – July 22)

You spend so much time going over your previous relationships and how you felt about it that anyone who wants to get close to you will feel put off. It’s great that you’re sensitive and empathetic, but the constant feelings are exhausting, both for you and a potential partner. You tend to come off self-involved and self-centered. 

 

Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer, As Written By One

LEO (July 23 – August 22)

People are attracted to you all the time because of your dazzling personality and good looks, but what can put them off is how you seem to need constant praise and compliments to live. Someone can appreciate you without stroking your ego 24/7. You’re awesome, you know it, now focus on someone else.

 

Read: 6 Brutal Truths About Loving A Leo, As Written By One

VIRGO (August 23 – September 22)

You can barely stand it when you turn your critical eye on yourself, so imagine how it feels when you get hypercritical with someone else. When you give into your perfectionist nature, you play a losing game. No one is perfect — not your potential boo and not you. Learn to appreciate imperfections and stop searching for flaws. Your standards are unbelievably high. 

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)

LIBRA (September 23 – October 22)

SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21)

SAGITTARIUS (November 22 – December 21)

You have this idea that committing yourself to one person means settling down and giving up all your freedom. You get to a certain point with a relationship and then you just take off, sometimes without warning. Getting you to commit is like trying to catch the wind with a straw: practically impossible.

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius, As Written By One

CAPRICORN (December 22 – January 19)

When it comes to love, you’re too rigid. You’ve had a plan with how your future will go down — love, marriage, house, and kids, and then you try to fit somebody into it without taking into consideration about what they want. You need to learn how to be more flexible and spontaneous. Sometimes it’s fun to create a life plan as you go along.

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths
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ut Loving A Capricorn, As Written By One

AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18)

There’s a reason why we have feelings — not only do they help to make our lives interesting, they affect everything we do. But you’re not the biggest fan of emotions and it can take you a long time to realize that you have them, let alone act on them. Here’s the thing: being completely unemotional is kind of a love buzz kill.

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius, As Written By One

PISCES (February 19 – March 20)

 

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How the Recent Full Moon In Scorpio Will Effect You For the Next Two Weeks, According to Your Zodiac Sign

In case you didn’t know, the full moon in Scorpio took place on the 29th and 30th. While it may pretty much be over, we will continue to feel its effects for the next two weeks.

Full moon energy doesn’t just zap into our lives and right out after. It sticks around and holds influence over our lives for a little while. You will be feeling the energies before you for at the very least a week or two. With this full moon being in Scorpio and occuring under the power of Beltane itself the energies will be bringing a very strong positively charged energy forth.

There is a lot going on in space right now with Saturn and Pluto both being in retrograde but while these energies might conflict a bit the next two weeks won’t be as intense as we think they will. Below I am going to go over each zodiac sign and how this full moon energy might end up affecting them. You can, of course, change the way you let these things work for you but in the end, if it is meant to be it will be, don’t fight the universe too hard.

Aries

You are going to continue on as per usual for the next two weeks but in the end, there will be some changes whether you want them to happen or not. You are going to feel a little more stressed than usual but there is a reason for that. These energies are going to be pushing you to really make a difference.

Taurus

You are going to be a little more linked with your true self in the weeks to come. You are going to be facing a lot of negativity and that will be something you have to work through if you want to get where you need to be. The problems that are coming towards you will only help you grow.

Gemini

You are going to be facing a lot of trust issues in the weeks to come. These are things you will have to work through if you want to press further but it shouldn’t be any kind of major setback for you. With that being said, don’t get ahead of yourself take your time.

Cancer

You are going to be digging deeper into the past for the next couple weeks. The full moon energy is inviting you to really try and work through the mistakes you have made so that you can finally let go of them. You always try to hold onto things like this for too long and now is the time to stop.

Leo

You are going to be taken out of your comfort zone in one way or another in the coming weeks. Things will truly never be the same. You really need to be as open-minded as possible to benefit the most from the energies before you.

Virgo

You are going to be finally getting some of the Karma Saturn has in store for you. This full moon is going to kick things into gear and really have you feeling like things are falling apart. Just remember, this is not going to last forever and the more you work through now the less you will have to work through later.

Libra

You aren’t going to be affected very much by this full moon but you’re going to feel a bit nerved out. Things are going to be pretty full of tension. Just don’t forget to breathe, things will be just fine.

Scorpio

You are going to be dealing with a lot of miscommunications even now that Mercury is no longer in retrograde. The weeks to come will be full of conflict and you are going to feel like things could not possibly get worse. Just remember, they can.

Sagittarius

You are going to finally be settling down for a little while. You are not feeling so well emotionally and it really shows. Take this time to really put in some self-care. The world is not going to hold you back for long, just relax and see where these energies take you. Let anything that comes to you resolve itself.

Capricorn

The less time you spend stressing out the better. The energy of this full moon is going to make you feel confused and stressed but not too terribly bad. The more you meditate and relax the better things will get. Be aware of the things you are saying don’t say something you don’t mean in the weeks to come it could have a very bad outcome.

Aquarius

Don’t let the full moon intimidate you. It is an overall positive energy regardless of who you are. Make sure that the people around you know how much you care for them. People in your life are going to be feeling very neglected in the weeks to come.

Pisces

I guess the weeks to come will be working in your favor overall but you are going to notice a financial loss of some kind. This could be a good thing or a bad thing depending on how it happens. Just don’t freak out, everything will be just fine if you trust yourself and don’t waste the energies before you. Use them to manifest something great.

This Is How You’re Ruining Your Life, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

The stars want you to stop it!

You’re ruining your life. Maybe it’s only in a way that’s small and won’t do that much damage. Then again, it might be in a huge way that will take a lot of work to stop it from destroying everything.

It might be that a change of perspective is all that’s needed to get you back on the right track. You’re focusing on things that ultimately won’t bring you happiness and won’t better your life.

Are you pursuing the wrong kind of guy? You think that you don’t want a relationship with any strings so you’re going after the dangerous guy, but inside you know that what you really want is someone you can trust and depend on.

You’re wasting too much time and energy on a guy who probably is going to hurt you and leave you alone. You need to pay less attention to what your lust says and listen to what your mind says.

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You might feel that you’ve made so many mistakes that you’ll never have the kind of life you want anyway, but that’s not true. You can change your life, you can change who you think you are, and you can change your outlook.

Do you have a positive outlook on your life? If all you do is think of the negative and plan for the worst, that’s the kind of dark energy you’re going to bring into your life. If you focus on your failures, mistakes, and flaws, it will affect everything that happens in your life.

You need to accept yourself and see how incredible you are. When you love and believe in yourself, it’s amazing the good things that will happen in your life. Astrology can see that you need a shift in your perspective.

This is how you ruin your life, based on your zodiac sign.

ARIES (March 21 – April 19)

TAURUS (April 20 – May 20)

You’re too rigid and you don’t ever deviate from the path you’ve set for yourself. By closing yourself off to the possibilities of life, you miss out on so many opportunities and adventures. If you do the same things repeatedly, in the same way, you’ll not only get bored, you’ll stagnate. How can you grow as a person or expand your creativity if you are inflexible and unchanging?

 

Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus, As Written By One

GEMINI (May 21 – June 20)

You have big ideas for major projects and you get pretty far on them… until you lose your momentum and you drop them. Your habit of not finishing what you started is more detrimental to your life than you think. All those projects weigh on you, whether you’re aware of it or not. They hold you back from achieving the success that’s due. Perhaps instead of taking on huge projects, start small with easily manageable ones, until you work your way up to the gigantic, life-changing ones.

 

Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini, As Written By One

CANCER (June 21 – July 22)

You’re too caught up in the past and obsessing over what might have been, especially in terms of relationships. You have it good right now if only you could see it. It’s helpful to learn from your mistakes, not to hyper-analyze them. When you go over every action, every emotion and everything said from the past, you get stuck there and are immobilized. Sometimes you need to let it go and move on, even if you think you have more to learn from that relationship you had that went South in high school.

 

Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer, As Written By One

LEO (July 23 – August 22)

You’ve been pursuing the same dreams since you were a small child and have never revisited them or adapted them in any way. You’re not the same person that you were and it may be time to adapt those dreams to something that’s more suitable to who you are now. You will have to be honest with yourself about your strengths, weaknesses, talents, and abilities, but when you see what you really should be aiming for, it will feel better when you achieve them.

 

Read: 6 Brutal Truths About Loving A Leo, As Written By One

VIRGO (August 23 – September 22)

You’re ruining your life by hanging on to the toxic people in your life. So what if you were best friends with that person when you were kids? They aren’t nice to you now and are always trying to bring you down. Not every relationship is destined to be forever; sometimes people are only in your life for a short time. When you hang on to people who don’t have your best interests at heart or who may resent you, you allow them to chip away at your self-esteem. Cut the losers from your life and you’ll be amazed at how much better you feel.

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)

LIBRA (September 23 – October 22)

You challenge your decisions too much. It’s a process for you to decide anything but even after the decisions been made, you lament your choice. Why did you order a hamburger when your partner’s spaghetti looks much more delicious? Or, was it a good idea to send your resume to that new company? What if they don’t hire you? Sometimes you just need to make a decision and stand by it without being so ambivalent about it.

 

Read: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra, As Written By One

SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21)

You’re ruining your life by hanging on to grudges, slights, and feelings of revenge. It’s all so negative and while it may seem like it sometimes, people aren’t out to get you. You have a lot of focus and energy, so if you direct it at something, especially something negative, it burns like a fire and destroys everything in its path. You can’t move forward if you’re too caught up in payback. Forgive and forget and you’ll be getting out of your own way.

 

Read: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio, As Written By One

SAGITTARIUS (November 22 – December 21)

Your need for instant gratification is a problem. If you don’t get what you want right away, you’ll just forget it or take off to parts unknown. You don’t have much patience and it’s challenging for you to see the big picture. You need to put things into perspective and remember “good things come to those who wait” even if the waiting takes longer than a nanosecond. You have to put in the time for the things you want.

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius, As Written By One

CAPRICORN (December 22 – January 19)

You tend to put work above relationships, which is a troubling characteristic. It’s great when you have all the success and money you want but what happens when you don’t have anyone to appreciate it with? You tend to be a workaholic with your eyes so firmly set on the prize that you miss some of the more important things in life. Get your priorities in order and realize that you need a life of balance, not one where you’re overworked and alone.

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn, As Written By One

AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18)

You put too much stock in your independence. You like to believe that you don’t need to be accountable to anyone but yourself. However, you get lonely, and you’re someone who genuinely loves to be around people. You’re not weak if you allow yourself to need someone or to be vulnerable with them; in fact, it actually makes you strong.

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius, As Written By One

PISCES (February 19 – March 20)

You tend to make some bad decisions where your life is concerned. You trust the wrong people, you don’t get all the facts when making an important decision, and you can be highly irresponsible. You need to grow up a little bit. You can’t live your life the way you did when you were a child when instead of doing what you were supposed to do, you just locked yourself up in your room and worked on your art. You need to be fully aware of where you’re at now and act responsibly. 

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces, As Written By One

 

Source:https://www.yourtango.com/2017302259/how-you-ruin-your-life-based-your-zodiac-sign

What People Never Notice About You, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

These traits aren’t as obvious as others.

People often forget who we are. They see us in passing, and we tune them out. We miss who they are as a person just as much as we might miss who they are. But you see we all have something to give, something that people should see but often forget too.

Here is what people miss about us according to our zodiac signs that are worth acknowledging.

Aries (March 21st to April 19th)

Taurus (April 20th to May 21st)

Taurus’s hearts are missed because the care they show others is so enormous that people forget their heart is their own. They think sometimes it is okay to walk over them, and in fact, they might even miss the fact they are human and have emotions of their own.

But do not fret dear, Taurus’s cut people out who seem to walk over you. Remind them you matter, and your heart is yours.

Related: 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus (As Written By A Taurus)

Gemini (May 22nd to June 21st)

Oh, dear Gemini — people miss the fact that you need advice too. You give so many people advice to the point that they just assume that no matter what happens you will always be there to tell them what to do and how to do it.

You know why certain things happen for a reason or might have more life experience… but don’t remember you are worth love too. Make sure you get the shoulder you need so that people know they can’t take you for granted.

Related: 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini (As Written By One)

Cancer (June 22nd to July 22nd)

Cancers, people often miss how soft you are. They see how tough and firm you are on the outside, so they forget you have the ability to show true empathy and true regard to people’s feelings.

Remind them of your deep understanding. Show them how much you care by being honest with your feelings and how people might perceive you will be different than who really are and that is the beautiful thing.

Related: 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer (As Written By A Cancer)

Leo (July 23rd to August 22nd)

Virgo (August 23rd to September 22nd)

People miss the fact you are highly detailed. They forget that you are capable of analyzing them and situations but you can also have fun too.

You are such a detailed oriented person and it is not a bad thing – but make sure to be honest to your surroundings and the people you choose to let in a long the way. 

Related: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)

Libra (September 23rd to October 22nd)

Libras, people forget how in-tune with injustices you are. You don’t like the little guy stay down. You think fairness and equality are your centers and you want more people to see that.

But maybe your friends and family and others forget that you have interests that are strong and that you care for the little guy. If it is in your plan speak openly, share your voice and tell them what is on your heart, and what matters most to you. 

Related: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra (As Written By A Libra)

Scorpio (October 23rd to November 22nd)

Scorpio – the world misses the fact how intelligent you are. It is not that they don’t see you as smart, they just haven’t seen that intelligence so close before. People don’t understand it because you are secretive about what you know.

Share it and show people how much you can engage with people around you. Remind them how smart you are by showing them you know things, and that it is not a bad thing.

Related: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio (As Written By A Scorpio)

Sagittarius (November 23rd to December 21st)

People miss the fact dear Sagittarius’s that you are carefree and can’t be tamed. Sometimes people think you are too clingy that you have to live by other people’s standards.

But don’t let this be your reality – remind them that you do not succumb to stereotypes or labels. It is always okay to be who you are. Be fresh and new, and do it in your own way.

Related: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius (As Written By One)

Capricorn (December 22nd to January 20th)

People miss that you can be serious. You might have always been known as the class clown or the funny guy. You love to have fun – but maybe just maybe you want to show people you are capable of having a little bit of both sides.

When it comes down to it, it is okay to be who you are with a little bit of fun on one side, and a little bit of responsibility on the others. Show people you can control your life and situations and look at how much good can come from it.

Related: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn (As Written By One)

Aquarius (January 21st to February 18th)

People miss that you are different than everyone else. Perhaps somewhere along the way people just defined you as ordinary. But you know you see the world vastly different than the others around you.

Don’t be afraid to let your guard down and remind people just how colorful and unique you really are. You are capable of change as well as creativity – keep the beautiful soul that is you. 

Related: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius (As Written By One)

Pisce
s (February 19th to March 20th)

People often miss the fact that you have an intuition about you. You can’t always explain why you know the things you do – but you do and that is perfectly okay. Sometimes people might even forget to see that you have the ability to see the world from little steps to big ones.

Remind people of the observations you notice and remind them that you see things other don’t. You’d be surprised what could come from that. 

Related: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces (As Written By A Pisces)

 

This article was originally published at Pucker Mob. Reprinted with permission from the author.

Source:https://www.yourtango.com/2017306013/personality-trait-people-never-notice-about-you-based-your-zodiac-sign

What Your Ex Still Misses About You, According To Your Zodiac Sign

Your ex still misses this about you.

When a relationship is over, it’s a normal response to want to be remembered and thought of by your ex. It’s insulting when no time passes between your breakup and when they’re with someone new.

One likes to think that their ex has some regrets in breaking up with you and that somewhere inside them they wish that you were still in their life. We want to make an impact on other people’s lives, and sometimes it doesn’t even matter if it was a positive or a negative one.

It seems to me that women hang onto their past loves a lot longer than men do. I like to stay friends with some of my exes and the ones that I’m not friends with, I’m up-to-date on their lives from social media.

However, my boyfriend has no idea what’s going on with any of his exes — and what’s worse is that he’s not that interested in finding out. If you were in a relationship with someone who helped shaped you into the person you are today, how could you not care about what was happening in their lives?

My boyfriend doesn’t wish them ill, he’s just entirely indifferent about his exes. I can only hope that my exes remember me and think about me from time to time. I like to think that I made a lifetime impression.

I wonder if the partners of my exes can make them laugh the way that I did or if they cook as well as me? And I wonder if there is one thing above all else that my exes miss about having me in their lives.

We may never know if our exes think of us or if they miss us, but astrology can help. Here’s what your ex still misses about you, according to your zodiac sign.

Aries (March 21 – April 19)

Your ex misses how you made everything more fun and exciting. In fact, no matter how happy they are, they secretly fear that their life is a bit boring without you being around. Your ex looks at your social media, and everything that you share looks fantastic. He experiences a profound FOMO for everything.

Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries, As Written By One

Taurus (April 20 – May 20)

Gemini (May 21 – June 20)

Your ex misses your unique outlook on life. You made them see ordinary things in new ways and encouraged them to think outside the box. They taught you how to see things with a new perspective and gave you the ability to understand and appreciate other people’s opinions.

Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini, As Written By One

Cancer (June 21 – July 22)

Leo (July 23 – August 22)

Your ex will always miss how much importance you put on their opinions and how you were always making sure they were doing well and were happy. You made them feel as if they were worthy and that what they thought mattered — not just to them but to the world.

Read: 6 Brutal Truths About Loving A Leo, As Written By One

Virgo (August 23 – September 22)

Your ex will always miss the way you took their life and made it 10 times better. You made order out of chaos. But you didn’t just fix the physical day-to-day chores — you brought out the best in them and made them believe that they could do anything. You gave your ex Grade A support that made things run smoothly and, in addition, gave them the confidence to handle any problem that could come up.

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)

Libra (September 23 – October 22)

Your ex misses the way that you made them feel at peace and how being with you taught them the power of having great social skills. They’ll long for that feeling of being a part of the coolest couple at the party and how you never judged them or made them feel less than.

Read: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra, As Written By One

Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)

Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)

You ex often remembers how you made them laugh until they couldn’t take it anymore. You made everything feel joyous and like a celebration. You were so adept at encouraging them to try new things, visit unfamiliar places and to speak to strangers, it’s as if you opened up the world to them.

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius, As Written By One

Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)

Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)

Your ex will always miss how you made them appreciate who they were and encouraged them to be themselves, even if others would find them strange. You helped your ex to feel comfortable in his own skin and to express his true self no matter if others would judge him.

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius, As Written By One

Pisces (February 19 – March 20)

 

Source:https://www.yourtango.com/2016297459/what-your-ex-still-misses-about-you-per-your-zodiac-sign

What Stresses You Out The Most In accordance To Your Zodiac Signal

Aries (March 21 – April 19)

As an Aries, it’s quite evident that you get stressed out the most whenever you don’t get the things that you want in an instantaneous manner. You always live a very fast-paced lifestyle. And you hate it whenever other people aren’t able to adjust to your pace. And so that’s why you get really stressed when you want something done, but other people aren’t able to deliver on it right away.

Taurus (April 20 – May 21)

Uncertainty and unpredictability. These are the things that really stress you out the most as a Taurus. You typically crave for structure and routine in life. You like it whenever you know where things are. You love it whenever people behave the way that you expect them to. But whenever you are in the dark about something, it really stresses you out. It pains you to not know what the next move is going to be. Uncertainty really brings out your dark side.

Gemini (May 22 – June 21)

You get really stressed out whenever you are forced to come to a decision on something. As a Gemini, you tend to defer the decision-making to other people a lot because you are too afraid of making the wrong choice. But in certain situations where people turn to you for direction, you freeze. You aren’t really the leader-type and that’s why you hate being put in that position.

Cancer (June 22 – July 22)

You hate not being home. That’s why vacations or business trips really stress you out. As a Cancer, you are only ever really comfortable when you are in your home. You love familiarity. Anything new or unfamiliar just really intimidates you. And you can’t bear being too far away from home for too long.

Leo (July 23 – August 22)

You are most stressed whenever someone opposes you or disagrees with you. As a Leo, you are so used to just getting what you want in life. You are so used to expecting people to bending at your will. You see yourself as the center of the universe and so you expect everyone else to adjust to you. However, there are some people who aren’t so friendly with you – and that really stresses you out.

Virgo (August 23 – September 22)

It might seem like a really simple thing to other people, but it’s a very big deal with you. As a Virgo, you are super stressed out whenever you don’t get the last word in during an argument. You ALWAYS want to be the one who gets the last say. You have this weird obsession with being the one who gets to end the conversation. And it really pisses you off when someone else takes that away from you.

Libra (September 23 – October 22)

As a Libra, you get really stressed whenever you are forced to keep track of the lies that you tell other people. You are so used to lying to others to improve their impressions and perceptions of you. However, the struggle to make sure that you never get found out is really stressful for you. It almost makes you just want to tell the truth even.

Scorpio (October 23 – November 22)

You get really stressed whenever someone demeans you or thinks of you as less than who you think you are. You are a realist and so you like to see yourself in an objective lens. But when other people are unappreciative of who you are as a person, it just really preys on your senses.

Sagittarius (November 23 – December 21)

A Sagittarius is incredibly insecure about listening to the doubts of other people. Whenever you find out that someone doesn’t believe in your capacity to do something, it really stresses you out. You always want other people to believe in your capabilities to make a mark on this world. You hate it when people don’t have faith in you.

Capricorn (December 22 – January 20)

As a Capricorn, you typically get stressed out whenever you know that someone is keeping a secret from you. You hate knowing that the truth is being concealed from you for some reason. You have this obsession to know everything that you possibly can. And when you know that you are being deprived of the truth, you don’t really take it all too well.

Aquarius (January 21 – February 18)

The one stressor in your life is your own self-doubt. You let your insecurities about your own abilities get to you a lot. And so in a way, you stress yourself out with your inability to acknowledge your skills and capabilities.

Pisces (February 19 – March 20)

The one thing that really stresses you out in this life is whenever things are disorganized and messy. As a Pisces, you always like to be living in the ideal. You always like t have a sense of structure and organization in your life. The moment that things don’t live up to your expectations, you get really stressed out. You hate it when things don’t go according to plan.

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If Your Partner is One Of These 6 Zodiac Signs. The Likelihood Of Them Cheating Might be High.. Here’s why

Through careful research, meticulous assessment and a lot of discussions later, we have zeroed in on a few zodiac signs that are more likely to cheat on their partners. Here you go:

1. Scorpio

Scorpio’s have a high risk of cheating. They have an extremely high sex drive and a thing for flirting. The satisfaction of their physical desires is their number one priority. They hate being vulnerable in a relationship. Ever heard of commitment issues? Scorpio’s in a nutshell. If you want to keep a scoprio by your side, you better be damn skilled in the bedroom.

 

2. Aquarius

Being in love with an aquarius is a beautiful experience. They will go above and beyond to help meet and serve your every desire, as long as they remain in love. Once they no longer feel the same way, they will do ANYTHING to keep the blame from being pointed at them. If your heart truly desires to be with an Aquarian, don’t let them get distracted.

 

3. Leo

Leo’s are the center of the universe -atleast their universe- attention seekers by definition, and the master of their own little world. They have a lot of confidence, and even more ego. If you want to tie down a Leo, you’re gonna need to tame the lion inside of them.

 

4. Gemini

Let’s face it, gemini’s are extremely attractive. They have a constant willingness to try new things and are never afraid to take the next adventerous leap. The problem arises arises with the fact that it is hard for them to be limited by monogamy for extended periods. A gemini will love you with all their heart as long as they are with you, but if they get bored, they’ll likely have an affair. So get CREATIVE and keep them interested!

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